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Asperger’s + Asperger’s couple

What follows is only my experience, and everyone’s experiences are unique.  Every relationship is different whether you’re on the Asperger’s/autism…

ActuallyAutistic, aspergers, autism, bond, bonding, love, relationships

This Blog Is Not Dead

It’s been entirely too long, and for that, I apologize. I am here.  I’m alive.  And I am well.  And…

ActuallyAutistic, aspergers, healing, life, PTSD, trauma, update

7 Years on…

[Note: I wrote the bulk of this post on the evening of Thursday, 3/23/2023] It was seven years ago tonight…

ActuallyAutistic, aspergers, autism, autistic, healing, processing, reflecting, reflection, transformation

Asperger’s / Autism and Rituals

Rituals, routines.  I imagine a swell majority of those of us on the Asperger’s/autism spectrum have ours.  Diff’rent strokes for…

ActuallyAutistic, adulting, aspergers, aspie, autism, cleaning, empowerment, ritual, routine, shopping

Epilogue: Catching my breath

[By “Epilogue”, I do not mean that this is my last post for this blog.  In fact, quite the contrary! …

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The Silent Widow

Like many of you, 2021 was not kind to me, and 2022 isn’t shaping up to be any great shakes,…

anxiety, aspergers, autism, change, death, gratitude, grief, mental health, psychology

The Silent Wave awakes from slumber

This has been a rather quiet place for quite a while.  As usual, I can explain… I meant to post…

ActuallyAutistic, adulting, aspergers, aspie, autism, autistic, change, divorce, life, love, relationships, transition

3/23/2020

Four years ago this evening, I was sitting in the stairwell outside, not far from the front door of our…

ActuallyAutistic, anniversary, aspergers, aspie, autism, discovery, fatigue, gratitude, memories, psychology, reflection, update

Cognitive fatigue

I’ve held off writing this post for a while, hoping I wouldn’t have to, but as the game of life…

ActuallyAutistic, aspergers, aspie, autism, autistic, brain, cognition, cognitive fatigue, fatigue

Surfacing :)

Insomnia has graced my circadian clock this morning and thus, I have time to write. 😉 It’s not your imagination;…

ActuallyAutistic, aspergers, aspie, autism, autistic, autumn, brain, brain fog, cats, update, weather

Remembering school life as a child unknown to be on the Asperger’s / autism spectrum

Two years ago, before the damage to my brain last year, I was a more prolific writer, fueled in no…

ActuallyAutistic, aspergers, aspie, autism, autistic, childhood, introvert, isolation, loneliness, school

Wandering misty thoughts on friendship and doubt

Do you see me?  I’m hard to spot, in too large a crowd, which is loosely defined as anything above…

ActuallyAutistic, aspergers, aspie, autism, autistic, friendship, random, self-doubt, thoughts

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a gardening newbie's adventurous journey

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Experimental testing without consent and the laws that began

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The Revelations of Dr Richard Day

Information he gave us in 1969 has come true - and so it will in the future to come

fugitivenation

A fugitive people within a nation is tyranny.

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Recover from the narcissist nightmare

Philosophical Healing

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Come for the laughs, stay for the lunacy

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Becoming Cliche

My Journey to Becoming My Mother

All that is going on, these days

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Ultimate Survival and Outdoors

Search Engines with less censorship

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Northern Tracey's scribblings

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Its all about longevity!

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The Heart of the Matter

A place where we write and talk about inspirations...our journey to discover what matters most.

The Heretic

Because I want to remain free.

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Easy vegan meals made with love and compassion.

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Raw food musings, recipes and photography

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They only do good to harm you.

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