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They thought I was ‘intense’…when I was actually autistic 

All my life, the word “intense” has crept into the conversation, usually in reference to my personality or my behavior … More

aspergers, aspie, assumptions, autism, autistic, intense, intensity, perception, thoughts

Autism is not psychopathy, and autistic people are not psychopaths [Mental Health Monday]

The word “psychopath” has come up in connection with the Asperger’s/autism spectrum.  In my filtered world, the “filter” referring to … More

aspergers, assumptions, autism, autistic, comparison, media, Mental Health Monday, mental illness, myths, portrayal, psychopathy, research

They thought I was being ‘dramatic’… when I was just actually autistic 

My mom is a very patient and loving person.  But despite nearly-endless patience, she would occasionally get exasperated with me. … More

ActuallyAutistic, aspie, assumptions, autism advocacy, autistic, childhood, communication, dramatic, emotions, frustration, interaction, misunderstanding, relationships

‘Special interest’ vs obsession 

The diagnostic criteria for Asperger’s/autism includes the tendency toward: “Highly restricted, fixated interests that are abnormal in intensity or focus … More

ActuallyAutistic, aspergers, aspie, assumptions, autism, compulsive, diagnostic criteria, fixation, misconceptions, obsession, preoccupation, special interests, stereotypes

Omg, I’m pedantic, too.  Kind of. Part 2

So…in the last post, I mentioned that I’m sort of pedantic.  And apparently, I’m not alone!   In that last … More

accuracy, always right, aspergers, aspie, assumptions, autism, autistic, communication, egotistical, misconceptions, pedantic, precision, superiority

Why I’m still hiding my Asperger’s / autism from some people 

In the grand scheme of my life, my knowledge of my Neurodivergent neurological orientation is still fresh-ish.  After all, my … More

acceptance, accusations, aspergers, aspie, assumptions, autism, female, misconceptions, social interaction, socially awkward, society, understanding

Autism is *not* ‘bad parenting’

I’m an autistic adult.  I was also a generally well-behaved child.  My mum had a near-endless supply of patience, and … More

aspergers, aspie, assumptions, autism, autistic, autistic adult, autistic children, empathy, misconceptions, motherhood, parenting, parents, stereotypes

Autism talks back [a rebuttal]

(Issuing a Content Advisory/Trigger Warning; ableism and pessimistic viewpoint of autism by one non-autistic parent (emphasized to indicate that I … More

ableism, assumptions, autism, autism acceptance, autistic, autistic children, human rights, ignorance, martyrdom, power differential, rebuttal, stress, trigger

‘Awareness’ is not enough ~ Part 3: Talk is cheap.  Please take action 

There’s a another chapter to this whole “Autism Awareness” thing.  It consists of the next step: action. My (stern, old-school) … More

assumptions, autism acceptance, autism advocacy, autism awareness, compassion, different not less, dignity, enlightenment, function labels, misconceptions, respect, stereotypes

Dear World: please withhold / reserve judgment. Thank you ~ one autistic person

Despite my attempts to be a no-frills, drama-free queen, what some see is not always what they get.  In my … More

accommodation, aspergers, assumptions, autism acceptance, autistic, criticism, energy, exhaustion, fatigue, insecurity, judgment, misconceptions, self-acceptance

“What do *you* do?” and other ways to trigger an Aspie/autistic person

Some of you are aware, at varying levels, that I’ve had a hilariously crappy week.  As in, so crappy that … More

aspergers, assumptions, autism, criticism, fatigue, friendships, ignorance, rant, relationships, self-care, self-defense, stress, triggers

Jumping to assumptions

As I journey further up (not down) my personal Asperger’s/autism spectrum discovery path, I’ve come to view human nature in … More

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