(Beginning note: this is how I view most of my relationships, especially the more successful ones. It’s not them; it’s … More
Every time I swear that it’s the last time Just one last time Just can’t take it Every defense I … More
It’s 2.30am in the central United States. I stand in the entryway of the apartment, shoes on, jacket draped over … More
In my last post, I wrote what ended up to be a (lengthy-but-basic) “tutorial” of sorts about relationships as seen … More
There is no “head over heels, OMG he makes my heart pound and my head spin” kind of feeling. What we have is even better than that: a calm, balanced, and comfortable life together, interwoven and intertwined.
My next post was going to be the second installment in the series I began with the previous post, but … More
The Early Background: I’ve been involved with my partner for 17 years now. We’ve always been very different people with … More